Once a
wise old man told me that if everyone in the world was qualified to do their
jobs, no work would get done. While
this may not entirely be true, it hints at an important truth. For many in America, and indeed around the
world, feeling unqualified is a fact of life.
In reality, it spurs many on to working “beyond their capabilities,” and
creates some of the best productivity.
The thought of losing your well-paying and interesting job because
you’re unable to perform to standards makes you work that much harder to
demonstrate that you are capable. Along
the way, however, comes stress. It
creeps into your life slowly, starting with a nagging head- or backache, then
builds to sleepless nights, weight fluctuation, and even depression. The key to dealing with stress is, as we
suggest in Dealing with Stress (link
to Overworked article here), to recognize its symptoms before they begin to
worsen and treat it immediately. The
stress generated from feeling unqualified has no doubt been the downfall of
many otherwise successful employees.
Follow these simple tips to feel more confident about your work ability.
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Get Educated. Plain and simple, if you don’t feel you have
the proper skills to do your job as your boss wants, get the skills. There are community colleges in your area
that offer courses in a wide variety of fields, and there may be adult
education centers. You could take a
class on using Microsoft Office ™, being a better salesperson, even learning to
cook. Usually these classes are fairly
reasonable and sometimes your employer will pay for you. If you’re seeking an advanced degree, night
classes are available at plenty of colleges and universities, and again, your
employer may pay for some or all of the cost, because your increased knowledge
will benefit the company.
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Get With It. Maybe your lack of confidence in yourself is
completely unfounded. Examine your work
record—have you been consistent with completing the tasks you’ve been
assigned? Do you find that when you
must do something, you do it? Some
people just need a bit of encouragement here and there, so don’t be hesitant to
ask your co-workers, family, and friends to help give you the confidence you
need to realize you’re a hard worker.
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Get in Touch
with Someone. Tell your boss how
stressed out you’re getting about work.
Though he or she may not like that you feel you’re unqualified for your
job, your boss should appreciate your honesty and sincerity. There may be stress-management programs
offered by your company, or perhaps your boss can get you enrolled in courses
that the company provides to its employees.
Being stressed is not a light
issue. Make sure you’re dealing with it
properly, and if conditions worsen, seek the help of a professional, such as a
psychiatrist or physician. Don’t think
you can deal with things on your own, because stress can rapidly spiral out of
control, with your health, your career, and your loved ones affected in very
negative ways. See the article on stress for more information. Overcome your lack of
qualification with intelligent steps in the right direction.