Eighteen applications into my search, Mews offered me a Senior PM role: €96k base, equity, fully remote out of Amsterdam.
I nearly took it. The interviews were polished. The hiring manager kept coming back to ownership, to giving PMs real authority over the roadmap, to moving fast without the usual enterprise drag. I left each round feeling energized. The equity conversation was straightforward, the base hit my number, and the remote setup meant I could stay put. I was close to signing without thinking much harder about it. Before I did, though, I spent a couple of evenings on LinkedIn cross-referencing people who'd held PM roles at Mews in the last two years. I found two former PMs and sent short, direct messages saying I had an offer and asking for fifteen minutes. Both replied within a day, which probably told me something on its own. What they said lined up too closely to wave off. The roadmap got rewritten roughly every six weeks, not because the market had moved but because senior leadership kept reversing decisions they'd already handed down. Two PMs had quit in the single quarter before my offer, neither of them as part of any planned transition. One of them told me she'd spent her last month rebuilding a spec she'd ↓